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Parashat Acharei Mot


Parashat Acharei Mot


The Deaths of Aharon’s Sons

 

This week’s parasha is called Acharei Mot and begins with the passuk, “Vayedaber Hashem el Moshe acharei mot shenei b’nei Aharon bekarbatam lifnei Hashem vayamutuHashem spoke to Moshe after the death of Aharon’s two sons, when they came before Hashem, and they died.”

 

As we learned a few weeks ago, the passing of Aharon’s sons actually occurred in Parashat Shemini. This week’s parasha brings up the death of Aharon’s two sons again, and it’s even named Acharei Mot—After the Death for this tragic event.

 

Nadav and Avihu were two great tzaddikim. According to Chazal, the sin they committed that caused their death was that they brought a foreign incense into the Mishkan without discussing it with each other — but more importantly, without the consent of their rabbi, Moshe Rabbenu. According to Rashbam, Moshe was waiting to bring incense only after the descent of the heavenly fire, because he wanted the first incense to be kindled with Hashem’s own fire to bring about a kiddush Hashem! Nadav and Avihu did not realize this and rushed to bring incense with their own fire. This teaches us an important lesson. As much as one thinks he may know a certain halacha, he should always consult with his rabbi before he does something that could be questionable or even forbidden. 

 

An obvious question is why this incident is brought down here in this parasha, when it actually happened earlier. The answer is in the next passuk, “And Hashem said to Moshe, ‘Speak to Aharon, your brother; he shall not come at all times into the Kodesh Kodashim, so that he [Aharon] should not die.’” Hashem used this incident to teach Aharon of the halachot of the Kodesh Kodashim. Rashi explains this with a parable of a person who is sick and goes to the doctor. The doctor warns his patient to stay away from certain foods and get the proper rest in order to recover quickly. If the doctor scares the patient, telling him that he could die if he doesn’t adhere to his instructions, the patient will be more likely to listen and follow the doctor’s orders.

 

But why is the Torah compelled to use these strong words — “don’t do it or you’ll die” — with Aharon, who was the kohen gadol and equal in spirituality to Moshe? Is there the slightest chance that Aharon would not obey Moshe’s instructions, even without the reminder of Nadav and Avihu’s deaths?

 

The Torah is teaching us an important lesson. As long as we inhabit our physical body, we will always have strong drives for forbidden things. Even Aharon could need to be taught a painful lesson to be able to overcome his yetzer hara. How much more so should we, who are at a much lower level of spirituality than Aharon, realize the danger of ignoring the consequences of prohibited acts.

 

Staying Busy

 

Perek 18 discusses further the prohibition of immoral acts. “Hashem spoke to Moshe, saying, ‘Speak to B’nei Yisrael and say to them: I am Hashem, your G-d. Do not perform the practice of the land of Egypt in which you dwelled; do not perform the practice of the land of Canaan to which I bring you, and do not follow their traditions. Carry on My laws and safeguard My decrees to follow them; I am Hashem, your G-d! You shall observe My decrees and My laws, which a man shall carry out and live by them — I am Hashem!’”

 

When the Torah gives us such a powerful introduction like the one above, we must take heed, because the Torah doesn’t waste words, and we must be aware that what is to follow is of the utmost importance! The Torah mentions these two places, Egypt, and Canaan, for a reason. They were both places of affluence.

 

Affluence leads to spare time. Meaning, when people have excess money and don’t need to work so hard, they have free time, which leads them to sin. When a person fills his time with learning or working hard, there is no time to sin. This also applies to the opposite of affluence. When people are unemployed, they are much more likely to get into trouble.

 

Filling Our Time With The Right Things

 

Rabbi Boderman writes, "Don't think about the aveirot -- sins of your past [which will cause you to lose hope] and don't think about what will be in the future [which will overwhelm you]. Focus on today. "Today, I can make a nachat ruach for Hashem with Torah and mitzvot." Focus on this day alone, and you will become tahor -- pure.

 

The Gemara (Sanhedrin 98) tells us that Yehoshua Ben Levi once found Eliyahu HaNavi standing at the entrance of Reb Shimon bar Yochai's cave.

 

Seeking the opportunity, Yehoshua Ben Levi asked the prophet, "When will Moshiach come?"

 

Eliyahu replied, "Ask Moshiach himself,” and proceeded to give him instructions on where to find Moshiach.

 

Yehoshua Ben Levi traveled to Moshiach and asked him, "When will you come?!"

 

 "Today," Moshiach answered.

 

Yehoshua Ben Levi returned to Eliyahu and said, "Moshiach lied to me. He said he would come today, but he didn't."

 

Eliyahu explained, "Moshiach meant, ‘Today, if to His voice you will listen (Tehillim 95:7).’”

 

Tzaddikim added that Moshiach was advising Yehoshua Ben Levi on how to succeed in listening to Hashem's voice. It is to focus on today, one day at a time. If you do so, you will find yourself able to listen and obey Hashem's voice.


Reb Binyamin Rabinowitz zt’l was the Rosh Yeshiva of Toldot Aharon. On the seventeenth of Tamuz, a student saw Reb Binyamin Rabinowitz learning eight hours straight without interruption! Usually, on a fast day people are weaker, but he learned with the same consistency throughout the entire day, without taking any breaks.


Amazed, the student asked Reb Binyamin how he did it. His Rabbi replied, “I didn’t begin studying eight hours straight. I started with a kabbalah that I wouldn’t interrupt my learning for five minutes. I kept this kabbalah for several months. Then I added another five minutes. A few months later, I added another five minutes. Now I’m an old man. Those five minutes have accumulated. Now, I’m up to learning eight hours straight, without interruption!”


The Yetzer Hara – evil inclination is constantly looking to lure us to sin. We have seen this happen over and over throughout history. When a person is employed, he has more self-respect, he has a goal, a structure, a sense of responsibility and accomplishment, and interactions with other responsible people. Boredom, whether due to having or lacking money, leads to improper behavior. We must always stay busy and fill our days with positive tasks. Torah classes, tech-free time with our children, chessed for those in need, helping our wives around the house. Hashem fiercely warns us in this very parasha about the dangers of boredom! 

 

Forbidden Relationships

 

The perek then continues to list all the forbidden relationships that we must abstain from. The Torah goes on at some length, describing each one of these prohibited relationships. These specific practices are mentioned because they were common in Egypt, where the Israelites lived for 210 years. When people live in a certain place for a long period of time, the foreign ideologies become deeply ingrained in them. That’s why the Torah had to make such a point of saying that all of these foreign practices are forbidden.

 

This is similar to what has been going on in American society today. Ask your parents and grandparents what life was like in the old days. America had moral values, and the people of this country were much more modest and had a better work ethic, but over time those morals and ethics have eroded to what we are experiencing today. We cannot be fooled into thinking that our environment doesn’t influence us, because it definitely does. That’s why we must live within the confines of our communities, to make sure that our families are protected from the foreign elements of today’s society. This is the lesson we learn from our ancestors. When B’nei Yisrael left the decadent society of Egypt, they also had to shed their baggage, so it would not accompany them as they headed to take up residence in their new homeland of Eretz Yisrael.

 

Rabbi Frand comments on the particular prohibition where a man is forbidden to engage in a relationship between two sisters. Unlike the other immoral relationships, the Torah did not forbid this because it’s essentially disgraceful, but because of the social harm it would bring to the sibling bond. Placing two sisters into this situation will inevitably cause those who should have been best of friends to have a hostile relationship with one another. The Torah distinguishes that it’s inappropriate to make two sisters into co-wives to show how important it is for siblings to get along with each other. Whether we ourselves are siblings or whether we are parents with children who are siblings, we all know that this is indeed a very big challenge.

 

Rabbi David Ashear wrote a story in Living Emunah 5 about loyalty between siblings. Shlomo, a taxi driver in Israel picked up a distinguished-looking man in need of a ride from the airport. As they drove toward their destination, the passenger casually rolled up his sleeves. “It’s warm in here, right?” he asked conversationally. Shlomo glanced over, and when he saw the man’s arm, he gasped. “Are you all right?” the passenger asked, noting Shlomo’s distress.

 

Shlomo proceeded to tell him a story. “Years ago, I worked on a kibbutz. My job was sorting apples. I would put the good apples in one pile, to be sold, and throw the lower quality apples into a giant blender to make juice. One day, I had an urge to see how the blender worked. After filling it with bruised apples, I climbed up to the top to watch the apples get chopped. Suddenly, I lost my balance and fell into the deep vat. The machine was running, and I had very little time before the blades would strike me. I began to scream. Right in the nick of time, I felt someone grab me. He pulled me out and saved my life. I thanked him profusely from the bottom of my heart. From that day forward, we became friends.”

 

“On occasion,” Shlomo continued, “I noticed my new friend would seem depressed. One day, I gathered the nerve to pry and asked him what was bothering him. He told me he was a Holocaust survivor. He and his only brother went through the war together before he was taken away. ‘I haven’t seen him since,’ my friend said. ‘Sometimes I think about him and I get really sad, remembering how close we were.’” Shlomo said to the passenger, “He showed me the number on his arm, 8862. His brother’s number was one higher, 8863. It has been about ten years since my friend told me that story. He still gets sad about his long-lost brother. I’ll never forget that number. You just raised your sleeve and it’s there! 8863!!”

 

Shlomo drove his passenger straight to his friend’s home and let his tears flow unchecked as he watched the brothers’ emotional reunion. This episode was orchestrated by Hashem for many years, showing us the loyalty of a sibling is unmatched.

 

May we continue to consult and maintain strong relationships with our rabbis. May we stay away from boredom by keeping busy with positive tasks like Torah classes, tech-free time with our children, chesed for those in need, and helping our wives. May we be loyal to our own siblings and teach our children to get along and love each other, because they are our future and legacy!!

 

Shabbat Shalom!

 

Rabbi Amram Sananes, written by Jack Rahmey

 

Discussion Point:

 

·        Was there ever a time when our boredom led to sin?

 

 

Parashat Acharei Mot


The Deaths of Aharon’s Sons

 

This week’s parasha is called Acharei Mot and begins with the passuk, “Vayedaber Hashem el Moshe acharei mot shenei b’nei Aharon bekarbatam lifnei Hashem vayamutuHashem spoke to Moshe after the death of Aharon’s two sons, when they came before Hashem, and they died.”

 

As we learned a few weeks ago, the passing of Aharon’s sons actually occurred in Parashat Shemini. This week’s parasha brings up the death of Aharon’s two sons again, and it’s even named Acharei Mot—After the Death for this tragic event.

 

Nadav and Avihu were two great tzaddikim. According to Chazal, the sin they committed that caused their death was that they brought a foreign incense into the Mishkan without discussing it with each other — but more importantly, without the consent of their rabbi, Moshe Rabbenu. According to Rashbam, Moshe was waiting to bring incense only after the descent of the heavenly fire, because he wanted the first incense to be kindled with Hashem’s own fire to bring about a kiddush Hashem! Nadav and Avihu did not realize this and rushed to bring incense with their own fire. This teaches us an important lesson. As much as one thinks he may know a certain halacha, he should always consult with his rabbi before he does something that could be questionable or even forbidden. 

 

An obvious question is why this incident is brought down here in this parasha, when it actually happened earlier. The answer is in the next passuk, “And Hashem said to Moshe, ‘Speak to Aharon, your brother; he shall not come at all times into the Kodesh Kodashim, so that he [Aharon] should not die.’” Hashem used this incident to teach Aharon of the halachot of the Kodesh Kodashim. Rashi explains this with a parable of a person who is sick and goes to the doctor. The doctor warns his patient to stay away from certain foods and get the proper rest in order to recover quickly. If the doctor scares the patient, telling him that he could die if he doesn’t adhere to his instructions, the patient will be more likely to listen and follow the doctor’s orders.

 

But why is the Torah compelled to use these strong words — “don’t do it or you’ll die” — with Aharon, who was the kohen gadol and equal in spirituality to Moshe? Is there the slightest chance that Aharon would not obey Moshe’s instructions, even without the reminder of Nadav and Avihu’s deaths?

 

The Torah is teaching us an important lesson. As long as we inhabit our physical body, we will always have strong drives for forbidden things. Even Aharon could need to be taught a painful lesson to be able to overcome his yetzer hara. How much more so should we, who are at a much lower level of spirituality than Aharon, realize the danger of ignoring the consequences of prohibited acts.

 

Staying Busy

 

Perek 18 discusses further the prohibition of immoral acts. “Hashem spoke to Moshe, saying, ‘Speak to B’nei Yisrael and say to them: I am Hashem, your G-d. Do not perform the practice of the land of Egypt in which you dwelled; do not perform the practice of the land of Canaan to which I bring you, and do not follow their traditions. Carry on My laws and safeguard My decrees to follow them; I am Hashem, your G-d! You shall observe My decrees and My laws, which a man shall carry out and live by them — I am Hashem!’”

 

When the Torah gives us such a powerful introduction like the one above, we must take heed, because the Torah doesn’t waste words, and we must be aware that what is to follow is of the utmost importance! The Torah mentions these two places, Egypt, and Canaan, for a reason. They were both places of affluence.

 

Affluence leads to spare time. Meaning, when people have excess money and don’t need to work so hard, they have free time, which leads them to sin. When a person fills his time with learning or working hard, there is no time to sin. This also applies to the opposite of affluence. When people are unemployed, they are much more likely to get into trouble.

 

Filling Our Time With The Right Things

 

Rabbi Boderman writes, "Don't think about the aveirot -- sins of your past [which will cause you to lose hope] and don't think about what will be in the future [which will overwhelm you]. Focus on today. "Today, I can make a nachat ruach for Hashem with Torah and mitzvot." Focus on this day alone, and you will become tahor -- pure.

 

The Gemara (Sanhedrin 98) tells us that Yehoshua Ben Levi once found Eliyahu HaNavi standing at the entrance of Reb Shimon bar Yochai's cave.

 

Seeking the opportunity, Yehoshua Ben Levi asked the prophet, "When will Moshiach come?"

 

Eliyahu replied, "Ask Moshiach himself,” and proceeded to give him instructions on where to find Moshiach.

 

Yehoshua Ben Levi traveled to Moshiach and asked him, "When will you come?!"

 

 "Today," Moshiach answered.

 

Yehoshua Ben Levi returned to Eliyahu and said, "Moshiach lied to me. He said he would come today, but he didn't."

 

Eliyahu explained, "Moshiach meant, ‘Today, if to His voice you will listen (Tehillim 95:7).’”

 

Tzaddikim added that Moshiach was advising Yehoshua Ben Levi on how to succeed in listening to Hashem's voice. It is to focus on today, one day at a time. If you do so, you will find yourself able to listen and obey Hashem's voice.


Reb Binyamin Rabinowitz zt’l was the Rosh Yeshiva of Toldot Aharon. On the seventeenth of Tamuz, a student saw Reb Binyamin Rabinowitz learning eight hours straight without interruption! Usually, on a fast day people are weaker, but he learned with the same consistency throughout the entire day, without taking any breaks.


Amazed, the student asked Reb Binyamin how he did it. His Rabbi replied, “I didn’t begin studying eight hours straight. I started with a kabbalah that I wouldn’t interrupt my learning for five minutes. I kept this kabbalah for several months. Then I added another five minutes. A few months later, I added another five minutes. Now I’m an old man. Those five minutes have accumulated. Now, I’m up to learning eight hours straight, without interruption!”


The Yetzer Hara – evil inclination is constantly looking to lure us to sin. We have seen this happen over and over throughout history. When a person is employed, he has more self-respect, he has a goal, a structure, a sense of responsibility and accomplishment, and interactions with other responsible people. Boredom, whether due to having or lacking money, leads to improper behavior. We must always stay busy and fill our days with positive tasks. Torah classes, tech-free time with our children, chessed for those in need, helping our wives around the house. Hashem fiercely warns us in this very parasha about the dangers of boredom! 

 

Forbidden Relationships

 

The perek then continues to list all the forbidden relationships that we must abstain from. The Torah goes on at some length, describing each one of these prohibited relationships. These specific practices are mentioned because they were common in Egypt, where the Israelites lived for 210 years. When people live in a certain place for a long period of time, the foreign ideologies become deeply ingrained in them. That’s why the Torah had to make such a point of saying that all of these foreign practices are forbidden.

 

This is similar to what has been going on in American society today. Ask your parents and grandparents what life was like in the old days. America had moral values, and the people of this country were much more modest and had a better work ethic, but over time those morals and ethics have eroded to what we are experiencing today. We cannot be fooled into thinking that our environment doesn’t influence us, because it definitely does. That’s why we must live within the confines of our communities, to make sure that our families are protected from the foreign elements of today’s society. This is the lesson we learn from our ancestors. When B’nei Yisrael left the decadent society of Egypt, they also had to shed their baggage, so it would not accompany them as they headed to take up residence in their new homeland of Eretz Yisrael.

 

Rabbi Frand comments on the particular prohibition where a man is forbidden to engage in a relationship between two sisters. Unlike the other immoral relationships, the Torah did not forbid this because it’s essentially disgraceful, but because of the social harm it would bring to the sibling bond. Placing two sisters into this situation will inevitably cause those who should have been best of friends to have a hostile relationship with one another. The Torah distinguishes that it’s inappropriate to make two sisters into co-wives to show how important it is for siblings to get along with each other. Whether we ourselves are siblings or whether we are parents with children who are siblings, we all know that this is indeed a very big challenge.

 

Rabbi David Ashear wrote a story in Living Emunah 5 about loyalty between siblings. Shlomo, a taxi driver in Israel picked up a distinguished-looking man in need of a ride from the airport. As they drove toward their destination, the passenger casually rolled up his sleeves. “It’s warm in here, right?” he asked conversationally. Shlomo glanced over, and when he saw the man’s arm, he gasped. “Are you all right?” the passenger asked, noting Shlomo’s distress.

 

Shlomo proceeded to tell him a story. “Years ago, I worked on a kibbutz. My job was sorting apples. I would put the good apples in one pile, to be sold, and throw the lower quality apples into a giant blender to make juice. One day, I had an urge to see how the blender worked. After filling it with bruised apples, I climbed up to the top to watch the apples get chopped. Suddenly, I lost my balance and fell into the deep vat. The machine was running, and I had very little time before the blades would strike me. I began to scream. Right in the nick of time, I felt someone grab me. He pulled me out and saved my life. I thanked him profusely from the bottom of my heart. From that day forward, we became friends.”

 

“On occasion,” Shlomo continued, “I noticed my new friend would seem depressed. One day, I gathered the nerve to pry and asked him what was bothering him. He told me he was a Holocaust survivor. He and his only brother went through the war together before he was taken away. ‘I haven’t seen him since,’ my friend said. ‘Sometimes I think about him and I get really sad, remembering how close we were.’” Shlomo said to the passenger, “He showed me the number on his arm, 8862. His brother’s number was one higher, 8863. It has been about ten years since my friend told me that story. He still gets sad about his long-lost brother. I’ll never forget that number. You just raised your sleeve and it’s there! 8863!!”

 

Shlomo drove his passenger straight to his friend’s home and let his tears flow unchecked as he watched the brothers’ emotional reunion. This episode was orchestrated by Hashem for many years, showing us the loyalty of a sibling is unmatched.

 

May we continue to consult and maintain strong relationships with our rabbis. May we stay away from boredom by keeping busy with positive tasks like Torah classes, tech-free time with our children, chesed for those in need, and helping our wives. May we be loyal to our own siblings and teach our children to get along and love each other, because they are our future and legacy!!

 

Shabbat Shalom!

 

Rabbi Amram Sananes, written by Jack Rahmey

 

Discussion Point:

 

·        Was there ever a time when our boredom led to sin?

 

 


Le’ilui Nishmat…

 

Eliyahu Ben Rachel

Rabbi Shimon Chay Ben Yaasher

Avraham Ben Garaz

Sarah Bat Chanah

Esther Bat Sarah

Avraham Ben Mazal

Shulamit Bat Helaina

Rabbi Meyer Ben Chana

Rahamim Ben Mazal

Batsheva Bat Sarah Esther

Rafael Ben Miriam

Ovadia Ben Esther

Rav Haim Ben Rivka

Moshe Ben Mazal

Moshe Ben Yael

Yitzchak Ben Adele

Avraham Ben Mazal

Meir Ben Latifa

Chanah Bat Esther

Yaakov Ben Rachel

Malka Bat Garaz

Moshe Ben Garaz

Avraham Ben Kami

Yaakov Ben Leah

Mordechai Ben Rachel

Chacham Shaul Rachamim Ben Mazal

Natan Ben Rachel

Saadia Ben Miriam

Eliyah Ben Latifa Simhon

Margalit Bat Mazal

Ovadia Haim Ben Malaky

Rabbi Aharon Chaim Ben Ruchama

Luratte Bat Masouda

Esther Bat Menucha

Uri Ben Rahel

Rivka Bat Dona

Shalom Ben Zahra

Rachel Bat Sarah

Shalom Ben Zahra


Refuah Shelemah…

 

Rachel Bat Devorah


 

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